Good Friend Bad Friend

From the begining I have been trying to instill in my Children of what a good friend is and a Bad friend is, How to deal with bad friends. I personally have been dealing with this issue as well. So very small parts of it i have shared with my children. Well, to my dissapointment today I get a call from a Mom whom I consider a GREAT friend to tell me my daughter is being a BAD friend to her daughter! I about fell over. though I know that this age is where they learn how to be a friend. How to deal with kids that are mean, snotty or selfish. You name it. I am not niave to think my child will be a good friend ALWAYS! I sure am not! But what gets me even more so it took me forever to even get the complete story out of my child. shoot I don't even think I got the whole story. It took her going to her room, sitting in there, and crying :( then to have Chad call her out and talk to her. She finally admitted that she indeed was mean. Not only was this a thing we are dealing with but her teacher caught her in a small lie this week and she lost privalages in class. Thankfully she told me about it as soon as she walked out of her class, but the teacher never approached me on it. hmm I wonder why that is. I even asked him today how she was doing and all he had to say was " the same" My gosh is she that bad? Am I truley raising a child that all the other kids wont like cause she is bad? What makes me sick is that she has such a sweet heart, she has a love for people thats untouchable. she is a senstive soul. Yet she has some serious impulse issues and always has. Perhaps I am just a bad Mom and should have stopped this along time ago. But yet I have no idea how much more I can do other than follow her around all day long and tell her what to do. How the heck will she ever learn to be a productive Christian adult?
tonight is the grandparent party For Tay, I do hope its fun and we all enjoy it.