9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.

I really need to take this one to heart, I have not slept for days, except when I fall alseep out of peer exhaustion. I have so much running through my head of the things I need to do. Chad informed me that no mater what he wants to move. If he doesn't get the job he is going for right now He will search in this area for more work. To me that is such a wow moment. I need to not just do light decluttering efforts but major overhauling here. I don't want half the stuff we have. So if we move I don't want to take it all, just a few choice pieces and memories. My goodness I still have my unity candle from when we got married should I even save it? If not How do I even wrap my brain around getting rid of memories that are materialistic.
We have been search for homes up there a lot. My parents have even began looking that's how serious this is. HMMM No wonder I don't sleep. Perhaps I should get some of that lunesta LOL
so I have written a list of areas that I would like to go through and down size I will pull out this list and follow it. Then it will seem more attainable. I have to say I am so happy that the person who sent me these ways to reduce stress did when they did I have never needed them more than now. I was content not to have change.