clean house, and other random stuff

I would like to know how those people who keep their homes clean at all times do it? I am notone of those people, I can't keep my home clean let alone clean it 100% there is always a room that is a "holy shit" room the one with everything in it that i just don't know what to do with or am just to tired to figure it out. I have tried the whole flylady thing it was good but, it wasn't entirely for me i got bored. perhaps that's it I get bored of cleaning. so much other things to do than clean up after 6 people 2 cats 2 lizards and a shit ton of fish. not to mention weeding the yard picking up the toys doing every ones laundry, making sure they eat at least 3x a day. get to school get their homework done read 20 minutes a night get to youth group get to friends have sleep overs. hmmmm what is it that I do for myself?? the last 2 Saturdays I have go out to a bar and sat had a few drinks and laughed with my friends and it has helped me huge just to be able to feel like an adult. this Saturday I am going out with friends and their friends for Amber's birthday, she turns 25 today I loved being 25 i wanted to stay that age FOREVER! i still feel that way in my mind with more years on me but i still love the same with the same passion. still like the same things just don't get to do them for me that often. but its not like I didn't understand my life would change when i had children. I don't regret having them AT ALL I just feel its time for me to take back some of my time I am not pregnant or nursing a baby
Saturday Chad is going with me I am so looking forward to going out and having him there. I love him so much and funny I am falling more in love with him each day. YEAH!!